You Were Built for More Than This
You were told to be smaller.
Quieter. More professional. Less... you.
And like a good little soldier, you tried.
Fuck that.
You are not too much. You are not too loud, too weird, too ambitious, too angry, too sensitive, too difficult.
You have been deliberately, systematically, repeatedly told that you are - by a system that benefits enormously from you believing it.
And somewhere along the way, you started to.
That's what I can help you to fix.
The system is working exactly as intended
Here's the thing nobody wants to say out loud:
The reason you're stuck isn't a personal failing. It's not a mindset problem. It's not because you need to journal more or wake up earlier or find more motivation.
You're stuck because capitalism needs you compliant. The patriarchy needs you small. Corporate culture needs you grateful for the scraps.
Every time you shrink yourself to fit in, every time you swallow your opinion in a meeting, every time you work twice as hard for half the recognition - the system wins.
I'm not interested in helping you survive the system better.
I want to help you blow the fucking doors off it.
Who I am
I'm Pea. Coach, author, ex-software engineer, heavily tattooed, heavy metal-loving human being. 🤘
I spent nearly 30 years in tech & education doing what I was told. Being professional. Being palatable. Keeping the real me firmly in a box labelled too much. Toeing the line. Biting my tongue.
I was good at it. I was also dying inside.
When I finally left - voluntarily, on my own terms 🖕 - I realised something: everything I'd been told was my problem was actually my power.
The directness. The intensity. The refusal to pretend things are fine when they're not.
All of it. Power.
And you? Same. All of it. Power.
You don't need fixing. You need unleashing.
What I bring
I'm not your average coach, and I mean that practically, not as a marketing line.
I come with a toolkit - neuroscience-backed, battle-tested techniques for dismantling the patterns that have been conditioned into you. Not soft. Not esoteric. Stuff that actually works on real human brains that have been through real human shit.
I come with 20+ years of mentoring and coaching experience, so I not only know how to listen properly to you, I know how to ask just the right challenging questions at the right time to make you think properly about things and to help you to make real breakthroughs.
I come with a systems brain - nearly three decades as a software engineer taught me to look at complex, broken systems and figure out exactly why they're not working. You are not a broken system. But the one you've been living inside? Absolutely is. Let's reverse-engineer your way out of it.
And I come with zero interest in making you more palatable. My job isn't to help you fit in better. It's to help you stop wanting to.
This is for you if:
You're done being grateful for opportunities that were always rightfully yours.
You're done making yourself smaller so other people feel bigger.
You're done waiting for permission that was never coming anyway.
You know what you want. You know who you are. You're just absolutely fucking furious that the world keeps pretending otherwise.
Good. Use it. That fury is data. That fury is fuel.
Ready? Here's how we work together
Unstuck in 90 Days
90 days. Fortnightly video calls. Async voice messages between sessions. Fortnightly email check-ins.
We figure out what's actually in the way. We build a system that fits your brain and your life. We use your anger as rocket fuel instead of letting it eat you alive.
You come out the other side moving. Loudly. Unapologetically. On your own terms.
Not for you? Don’t worry, there are other ways I can help, so let’s talk anyway!
One last thing…
If you've read this and something in your chest went yes, finally, someone said it - That's your signal.
Not your head. Not the voice that says but is this really professional?
Your chest.
The system has had enough of your energy. It's time you had it back.
Let's go. Book your call now.
Testimonials
Coaching Client 2025
“Working with you is always illuminating, you bring a wealth of knowledge from previous job roles as well as personal development to everything that you do and use it to further whatever conversation you are having or challenge you are facing. I always feel as if I have grown after a conversation with you”
Bad Habit Course Client 2024
“I found this course extremely helpful, useful, educational and has helped "Fine tune" my ability to "kick the bad habits". I had an idea of bits of the system but working through the course, allowed me to "fit them together" and form a more structured system, that I am now using and implementing with better results than before.”
Coaching Client 2025
“As a coach, you understood the difficulty I am facing with empathy and came up with lot of solutions. Even, when I was not clear with the problem I am facing, you were keen to get to the root of the problem by framing your questions in a different way which helped me a lot!”